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Beautifil wife problem   CT desi   03/05/2019 10:50 AM  

Hi all i am sincere follower of this forum and i like the way people help each other ..some times bad but mostly good people there ..i need u r suggestion my wife is beautiful with killing looks. That's why i married here. But now i feel insecure to send her to job..specially if she get into IT she has to work some where and i work some where then we know how people are deseprate for women and it may lead some neagtive



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Re: Beautifil wife problem   CT desi   03/05/2019 10:50 AM  

and it may lead some neagtive things in life ...please advice from people who are in same situation..i need to send her to job bec my financial situation is tough.. i paid all my savings to taking care of parents due to illness


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Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   Suggestion   03/05/2019 11:05 AM  

I don't want to sound rude here, What is this SICK mentality? You need to trust your wife. If your wife wants to have an extra marital affair then she will do it even though she is not going outside to do job.

If you are so unsecure, you will have problem with anything your wife does. So please stop overthinking and do what you need to do for a happy and financially stable family.

And this IT industry is not that bad as people made it look like, it’s all depends how someone dealing with the situation, if someone really wants to have extra marital affair, they will do so. It’s not the fault of IT industry. I am a working lady and in this Industry since last 13 years, never felt so. Moreover you are pointing your fingers towards the MEN, don’t forget you are one of them…

So please let your wife do the job, let her help you and help herself.


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Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   Suggestion   03/05/2019 11:06 AM  

After giving this suggestion I really feel it was a waist of time writing the comment as i Feel this is Fake...

Again misuse of this portal...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   CT desi   03/05/2019 11:25 AM  

Well thanks for suggestion. I am sedious here why the hell should i fake and whats there to fake ..its pretty common problem in india thats qhy u see most talented girl stays inside kitchen.

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Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   CT desi   03/05/2019 11:27 AM  

And if u really serious to help me
How do u look that matters
If look avg or below avg then no one scratches you but if you are above avg fair complex or tall what ever attracts like me male dogs are ready to help u in each step and try to utiloze the opportunity

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   Sam   03/05/2019 01:04 PM  

Same Boat Brother, While marrying we only prefer looks, after marriage we know the -ve of good looks and importance of finance.

if you have that as big concern then look at jobs where you feel more secured.

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Re: Beautifil wife problem   OhBoy   03/05/2019 01:20 PM  

(at) CT Desi you do have a point, I have seen such cases happening, I mean girls or boys having an extra marital affair but what matters is your equation with your spouse, if you two are happy in your relationship and are spending enough time together then you should be fine.
Do not doubt your spouse but try to make your relationship more secure and warm. People don't look outside the marriage unless they are desperate and truly unhappy with there partner.


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Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   ct desi   03/05/2019 01:50 PM  

See thanks for understanding the problem,
I agree when bonding is good no one break it easily but this is husband and wife relationship which scope of fighting is always there in any family.
They expect lot of gold or money or want to spend always time, which we may or may not have to do so,
then the other persons will always try to take advantage of this little gaps showcasing I am there, I will pay you attention and I will do what all you like. We know this games and how it works. Thats how extra marital will come in picture, and no women wantingly will go for this 90% mens provoke women keep saying this is not guilty or not common.
In my company i know one girl who hates her husband for not taking care and the other guy how he is taking advantage.

I want to hear from people those who are sending their "Good Looking" wifes to work

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Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   OhBoy   03/05/2019 02:18 PM  

(at) CT Desi I hear you!

Basic thing, accept the fact that your wife is pretty and she will get attention from the society ! accept it. Period.
Now, you as an "Insecure" husband, got to deal with it, she is yours,by marriage,by all means, coming from progressively conservative society such as ours, I'm pretty sure she won't look outside marriage, no matter what, unless you make her unhappy. Remember, spending time together is the key. Just for 10% of unhappiness, women or men wont look outside the marriage.
You can not put restrictions on her, cut her wings, just 'coz she is pretty , infact, talk to her about all what you feel, that talk would help rather than hearing out from others. Tell her that you need her, now and always.

There are tons of beautiful ladies out there, not everyone is looking for one night stands or affairs.


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   ct desi   03/05/2019 02:31 PM  

dear Oh boy
I got what you saying.
Leaving here in diff location, I am staying in diff location is it ok ? or giving voluters a chance.

I know love bond and all will control !! if they dont play vitral role on boys looking extra chance, I dont think it may play that much vital role.

But my question adds here how the other guys in the same situation who has pretty wifes doing ? are they allowing their wifes with braod mind to work where ever they want or try to be "protective" or like safe game?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   OhBoy   03/05/2019 02:42 PM  

(at) CT Desi Surely hear it from others but I've seen long distance relationships working for some and failing for a few.
No defined thumb rule, whether it would work or fail, you got to take a chance, and for that chance to work in your favor, build trust, that's it.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   ct babu   03/05/2019 03:48 PM  

Just for Information Married women who stays away from husbands are always easy target for me. Easy to offer help and they dont know driving, dropping them, helping them in groceries, and then one fine day inviting to my room as I am sick lol . I slept a couple of them here only and good thing is they dont chase you for marriage and it will be kept as secret for ever and we can open the account when ever we want.

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Re: Beautifil wife problem   NRI guy   03/05/2019 03:56 PM  

kindly contact ct babu, he has solution to every problem regarding girls. i am sure he can take care of your wife too like he has taken care of many others.

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Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   ct desi   03/05/2019 04:17 PM  

what you mean by that NRI Guy?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   reddy   03/05/2019 04:27 PM  

you can put it more directly that you are available if someone needs...Lol

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   ct desi   03/05/2019 04:36 PM  

who are you replying reddy, didnt get your answer

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Re: Beautifil wife problem   RJ   03/05/2019 05:25 PM  

Let me take that problem off your hands.

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Re: Re: Beautifil wife problem   North desi   03/05/2019 08:46 PM  

Rj you should respect other persons fellings dont behave like ctbabu

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