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Opposite gender roomate   Desi girl   02/28/2018 06:24 PM  

Hi I am tied of looking for a girl as my roommate and I found none so far ...and the rent is becoming expensive and can't terminate lease for next 8 months (1 year lease) ..but when i post adv lot of boys posted intrest..any girl pros and cons of staying with a guy ? I never stayed before and not sure how it works ..its a 2bhk though.

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Re: Opposite gender roomate   P   02/28/2018 06:35 PM  

I am currently living with a male roommate and have no problems so far. He doesn't talk to me much, comes home only to sleep. One of the biggest advantages is that you can make some extra money if you can cook for him. I know how to cook (infact I am a chef), and he asks me to cook for him and he pays me for it, little extra money for me :P I would suggest meet with him face to face first if he seems like a decent guy, go for it. And even if everything goes wrong and the guy turns out to be a creep, clearly tell him that you will call police on him if he does something inappropriate. Indian boys are very scared of police lol, happened to me once before at work, he never dared to look at me inappropriately again.

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Re: Re: Opposite gender roomate   Sp   02/28/2018 07:01 PM  

Well my experience is horrible ..though the guy was initially good but later some times he rome without shirt or bring his friends. I told him strictly no friends. Then he stoped ...as said above that's true they are very afraid of police ... So shouldn't be a problem but make sure the guy has shirt always!(Like put this condition)

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Re: Opposite gender roomate   Desi Guy   03/01/2018 06:31 PM  

Hi..I understand your pain of rent considering the lease as well but just think from different angle that why a guy will stay with so many restrictions you gonna imposed on him...

The best way is whenever you get response from someone accept that and if you have some issues you can have conversation in a friendly manner once he started living you.

everyone understand others feelings if things are said in a friendly way

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Re: Re: Opposite gender roomate   Desi Honest    03/01/2018 09:27 PM  

Dear Desi girl

Good thinking and good you are coming out of that typical Mindset, No one will rape here so that problem is not there..
but barish ki raath I dont know one day you are in romantic and he too one one cold day your life will be ruined!!

Personally if I know my wife stayed with one roommate off opposite gender I simply kill her !! Imagine your husband stayed with one girl even though he says that no romance will you believe?

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