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| Tired woman |
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01/29/2018 07:54 PM |
Hi guys I'm so tired of life after marriage. Work, kids and chores. Day by day my toddlers are driving me nuts. At work clients are just being cruel and ugly towards me. I just hate my life. It's not how I ever imagine, I can't take a breath. My husbands supports me and helps me all the time, but I'm just so fed up.
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truth |
01/29/2018 08:14 PM |
marriage and kids are a trap and unfortunately, people don't realize until its too late, or some people just don't want to accept it - cognitive dissonance.
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AB |
01/29/2018 10:14 PM |
You are having a great life my friend! Just relax.
I wanted to retire and wanted a peaceful life but that did not happen yet !!!
May be take some time off chill out and have some fun time with loved ones! It is great your husband is supporting you.. that is awesome !
2 cents : Do not worry about things which we do not have much control or which is not in our capacity !
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curious indian |
01/30/2018 10:34 AM |
Liked the 2% - 98% theory of 2 cents.
My 1 cent - we are always stressed and want to be over with the phase of life we are in. If we are kids we want to grow, if we are young/students we want to be rich and relax, if we got kids we want them to grow and leave the nest, if we are working we want to retire, if retired we want all those earlier days to come back!
One general solution is to break the routine. Leave your kids to a care taker at least once or twice a week and do activities you enjoy (preferably as a couple) - got to gym, hike, dance, movies, get drunk, go to vegas.
If you try to live by our indian standards (set by previous generations living as housewives in india), it will be difficult and depressing.
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RJ |
01/31/2018 09:31 AM |
This too shall pass.
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Jesus loves you |
01/31/2018 10:05 AM |
Believe in jesus child, he will make everything alright. Have faith in him.
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C.f. desi |
01/31/2018 06:00 PM |
How old are they
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| Re: Tired woman |
Hope this will help |
04/19/2022 11:01 PM |
Hi
I understand your situation, and i know you want to spent time with your kids and dont want to leave your job and then household things that i thing only you can manage. I just want to highlight some points.
When woman work at home its normal for everyone but if man will do one thing everybody will start appreciating him, as you and your husband both are working, talk with your husband and divide the household work 50-50.
Kids are small so join them in a day care and then at the end Of the day you can spent sometime with them to know if everything is good.
Office:- i know its very easy to say dont bring your office tensions to home but thats impossible because things will be there in mind but try when you came home everyday after work fix "self-love hours". Thats just your time no husband, no kids no work, in this time do self care go to saloon, do nail care, do feet care whatever you want.
And most important keep your Saturday and Sunday totally free, go out even if you dont want to buy anything still go out, sit in park, go to mall, do lunch and dinner outside so that you will not have any kind of stress that ohh i after going home i have to do this that.
I know job husband kids family everything is important in life but you know what is most important its "YOU" you cant loose yourself for any relation.
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Hope this will help |
04/19/2022 11:03 PM |
Hi
I understand your situation, and i know you want to spent time with your kids and dont want to leave your job and then household things that i thing only you can manage. I just want to highlight some points.
When woman work at home its normal for everyone but if man will do one thing everybody will start appreciating him, as you and your husband both are working, talk with your husband and divide the household work 50-50.
Kids are small so join them in a day care and then at the end Of the day you can spent sometime with them to know if everything is good.
Office:- i know its very easy to say dont bring your office tensions to home but thats impossible because things will be there in mind but try when you came home everyday after work fix "self-love hours". Thats just your time no husband, no kids no work, in this time do self care go to saloon, do nail care, do feet care whatever you want.
And most important keep your Saturday and Sunday totally free, go out even if you dont want to buy anything still go out, sit in park, go to mall, do lunch and dinner outside so that you will not have any kind of stress that ohh i after going home i have to do this that.
I know job husband kids family everything is important in life but you know what is most important its "YOU" you cant loose yourself for any relation.
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