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Button Camera   A   09/18/2017 10:56 PM  

Hi,

I need a button camera just for one day to expose my child's teacher, if anyone has it, please help... please please!!!


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Re: Button Camera   A   09/18/2017 11:00 PM  

I tried to buy online but it is taking tooo much time to get delivered...

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Re: Button Camera   Friend   09/19/2017 12:23 AM  

What happened..hope all is well with your child. Good luck

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Re: Button Camera   Rajiv   09/19/2017 04:15 AM  

Please check the laws before using camera

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Re: Re: Button Camera   Alpa   09/19/2017 10:47 AM  

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Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   my 3 cents   09/19/2017 02:58 PM  

You might get into trouble, pls check the law

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/19/2017 03:26 PM  

What should i do then? How can i prove myself?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   sk   09/19/2017 04:28 PM  

Explain the situation in detail we will help you to find a solution.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/19/2017 10:54 PM  

What should i do then? How can i prove myself?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   helper   09/20/2017 09:36 AM  

CaAn you elaborate more whats going on? Is this in school or day care. You always have option going to administrators of school./day care with your complaint. If it is day care you always have option of changing day cares. But, why do you feel helpless? Having a hidden camera is not the only option. Be strong and speak out about your suspicions.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/20/2017 12:47 PM  

Its a popular school and my child is going for pre kindergarten there.

I cant pull out as there is a policy that all my money will be forfeited (900$ min though they have 1350 in advance; might refund 1 month but not sure)

Everyday is a punishment there with teacher scolding as well as punishing my child for petty things like picking up wood chips from the playground or not standing straight in line or not pasting stickers and the list goes on and on and on)

My child has already lost all the excitement of going to school. Talking to teacher, she only speaks her point. There is racism and i could feel it everyday. My child daily says that an american kid beats him but when he complains, she does nothing. Many other things happening, cant type all...

Not only what kid says, seen things on my own too. Need to prove we are not lying and she is wrong.

Not a day goes when she is happy. Feel like my head will burst out and im tired of taking it anymore. Previous schools always praised my child and i also know what my child can/cannot do.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   sk   09/20/2017 06:31 PM  

Complain to the head teacher. Looks like she is short tempered and not fit for teaching. Find out from other parents who have same concern and act together.
This is the only way.

Even if you have camera to prove your point the school will try to punish you rather than accept their fault, because you cannot use illegal methods.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/20/2017 10:10 PM  

Other indians have the same complaint too but noone comes forward to speak up thinking she might harass their child...

She even complained to me that my child was laughing and playing one day... i just dont know whats the problem if any kid is happy?

Yesterday she was screaming at kids that she dont want to hear any single voice from anyone and all the little kids were looking at her face... i saw and hear it myself... my kid was also looking at her with his little mouth open... im not against teaching but there should be a proper way...

She is expecting kids to behave like adults and im against it... i might sound blunt but i dont believe in teaching discipline at the cost of innocence... whole life they are going to live as adults, let them live their childhood now...

I just want to show whats happening there with a proof else noone would trust me... she told me she cant teach and work with every kid one on one and they have to be on their own... i mean seriously??? Charging so much money from us for just playing, scolding and punishing little kids?

I want to fight against her and in favor of kids who dont even know whats happening with them. Dont know about others but i dont want my kid to suffer this at all...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   E   09/20/2017 10:18 PM  

give a written complaint to school management asking answers, keep copy with you.. basically rather than complaining verbally, make it on paper.. it will come handy if things go south..

also about deposit and all... loosing 1000-2000 dollars is much better than loosing your child's childhood and happiness.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   E   09/20/2017 10:21 PM  

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2015/feb/24/parents-schools-how-to-complain-teachers

might come handy

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/20/2017 10:42 PM  

What's the name of the school?



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/20/2017 11:05 PM  

Completely agree and ready to let go that money too... but the problem is- i dont want to quit the situation without any mistake... Papa always taught me to fight against the wrong...

I can change the school but this kind of situation might come again then?? How far can I run?? And why? when I know that she is completely wrong, just that i dont have any proof against her...

This is her first year of teaching this age group and she is not able to handle...

Everyone knows and says but the problem with us indians is that we are never united... we dont care until something comes on our head... we always want to play safe but im not a part of that crowd... so i dont mind fighting alone...

Truth is never scared of anything... and so am I...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Desi   09/21/2017 03:17 AM  

I like your approch, never ever bow to anyone if you are on the right side, record it or use your phones audio recorder, i dont think thee is any law that will go against you.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   best of luck   09/21/2017 06:20 AM  

Buy from amazon and they will ship same day

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Gulshqn   09/21/2017 08:24 AM  

First report to management. Principal
If not working with principal finally go to media
Yes if anything is not working finally go for” media” saying as this particular teacher is showing “racism “ that’s it.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   helper   09/21/2017 01:43 PM  

I agree, you have to report to management in WRITING. Your best option is to make a written complaint against the teacher. In this country every business is scared of being sued. So use that card, say that you feel your kid is being discriminated against. Put it in writing, and write specific instances not general statements. You don't need proof if you can put examples. Say your kid is suffering and does not want to go to school. Take points from what you wrote above regarding punishing child for petty things, child being bullied and teacher not doing anything. Bullying is a big thing, so use that. In this county you have to know to use the right words. I gave you 3 - sue, discrimination and bullying.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Amit   09/21/2017 06:09 PM  

According to ct law you cannot record a conversation that you are not part of
Having said that seems like a pretty strict contract for pulling ur child out of school. Maybe you need to re check the facts and avoid over exaggeration. Talk calmly to head mistress and explain your concerns. This way they will get alerted and keep an eye on the teacher and your child.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Amit   09/21/2017 06:09 PM  

If she is really bullying school will take action. No school supports teachers more than late ts . The first priority in this country is children . You need to address this issue calmly and not resort to illegal activities like camera.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Patel    09/21/2017 10:22 PM  

Is this pleasant valley elementary school or is it day care? I know the owner to Learning center if she is enrolled there. He is a good friend of mine. Please let me know if I can help you. The owner Rob would do anything.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/22/2017 08:16 AM  

Thanks but its a different school.

Im tooo sick since yesterday so delay in responding, sorry.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   question   09/22/2017 11:15 AM  

Why dont you name the school ?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/22/2017 11:27 PM  

I am not an idiot to name it on an open public platform before taking any action...

Why do u want to know the name? What will u do?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Desi   09/23/2017 02:54 AM  

Good reply

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Patel   09/23/2017 07:50 AM  

I would like to know the name of school my son will start pre-k soon. I wouldnt want to enroll my son there. Please tell.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   question   09/23/2017 01:51 PM  

You want help from others but don't want to warn about the school ? Selfish parent deserves it right.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/24/2017 01:04 AM  

Dont u dare talk to me in that language. I needed help but did u gave me that camera? NO... So what do I owe you? Nothing... You came twice, both times just to know the name of school so even your advice is not free...

Its YOU who are selfish because you are too worried about your child who is yet to join (most probably from next session as this session has already begun) that you want me to tell you the name without or before taking any action so that my child will suffer and you and your child be safe???

If u hv any sense, do u know anyone can read everything and even ppl besides indians do too... did i asked anyone to offer their personal contacts to help me??? What selfish act i displayed?

Its my child who is treated bad and if u think a kid deserves it, dare to look into the mirror yourself... u dont even deserve to be a human, forget parent...

Thanks to all for your valuable suggestions. I am crying reading this line "deserves it right" and feeling soo bad to ask help here... People dont think even once before opening their mouth for other's kids but they forget, someone above is watching everything... i will never forget this & hopefully God won't too...

Thanks to all my other brothers and sisters for your suggestions!!! Thank you...





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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Patel   09/24/2017 06:51 AM  

I would like to know the name of school my son will start pre-k soon. I wouldnt want to enroll my son there. Please tell.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   u   09/24/2017 09:05 AM  

Rula diya na saale tu ne bhabi ko.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Desi - Help   09/24/2017 12:30 PM  

Understand your frustration,but there are other ways of handling this in a mature way. You can always report this matter to Better Business Burueau, or DCF. If you think that your child is in danger, consult a lawyer, before you do anything that is illegal and end up in a lawsuit against self , rather than the school. The pen is mightier than the sword- If you know what I mean. Good luck to you.
Above all stop bashing your fellow Indians out of frustration, who might be your only help in this country. God bless!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Subhashini   09/24/2017 04:50 PM  

Write down in WhatsApp & in Facebook. Make shares of it until it reaches management. I think many Indians are their in that school which you specified as most popular school.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/24/2017 07:03 PM  

Firstly, im not in frustation.
Secondly, there is racism/ wrong things but not danger of life.
Thirdly, i didnot bashed fellow indians but only mr. question and not out of frustation but said correctly and i dont feel bad about it. Nobody has the right to curse/ dictate, who deserves what, except God. He used wrong words and i wont tolerate it. Esp when it comes to my child.

Asking help doesnt gives the right to adviser to speak up anything.

Thank you for the valuable suggestions. I will take proper action!!!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   difficulties come to make you stronger   09/24/2017 07:33 PM  

bhabi agr koi madad ki jarurat hui toh mujhe yaad rakhiye ga. i have a friend who is lawyer.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Desiii   09/24/2017 07:50 PM  

Completely agree and support you!!!

Liked the way you conveyed your strong opinion without using a single bad word...

I too condemn this - selfish parents deserves this right - person and his thinking... think before you speak... u might become a father too someday...

I am a parent and i know how it feels...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/24/2017 07:57 PM  

Dhanyawaad. I dont think i need to go that far. But will definetely remember you if needed. Thanks a lot!!!

And yes, i will come out of it stronger... your name is also giving me a very positive msg

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Non selfish   09/24/2017 10:22 PM  

You need help from others and not ready to help other parents for their kids? Nobody should listen to you.
Please dont reply until this person helps other by disclosing the name of school or at least the area.


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   A   09/24/2017 11:24 PM  

I only needed a button camera for a day and nothing else... i never asked for any other help...

Listening as regard, ppl only asked me to elaborate, i didnot forced anyone to listen to me...

PS. Changing names wont make you an army of different ppl...

This thread ends from my side. Thanks all!!!


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Desi   09/24/2017 11:42 PM  

Whats wrong??

How can anyone disclose the name here when no action is taken yet? It might create huuge problems for the child if someone from that school knew it beforehand.

Before reacting, think what u asking? You thinking only about your child who is not even into the situation and what about her little child who is facing it??? Owner of the post was looking for help to expose teacher but looks like you planning to expose her plans to the school??? Show this unity in school when teacher does wrong with someone else kid's.

To the post owner- no matter what others say, dont fall into the trap until u r out of your situation. Revealing school identity now, might act as your biggest setback. I support u.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   question   09/25/2017 07:13 AM  

Its obvious from the writing style, the OP A , desii and desi are same person. Imagine if she/he can write with fake names like this to support her point, I would question her claims of abuse.

The apple doesnt fall from orange tree.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Desiii   09/25/2017 09:28 AM  

E aur sk ne bi waise hi likha hai.U r rite, all are 1 and same posting with different names.Sab fake hai questn b aur answer b
Admin- delete kardo bhai ab

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Re: Button Camera   RJ   09/25/2017 10:31 AM  

Everything is fake. Who in their right mind asks for a button camera?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   Asst Att   09/25/2017 05:08 PM  

Sir if possible try to take a video rec. Using camera is not illegal until or unless used for other derogatory purposes like recording private moments and others privacy and using them to cause harm. But in this case to bring out the abuse if u feel its there its not illegal...Do not directly contact them with the evidence whatsoever u have, end of the day its their team they try their best to move out sometimes try to cause harm to kid or family. My opinion is if u want to b strong in ur case hire a detective or lawyer yes it costs allot but worth it...then if such physical mental harassment exists u can sue those bastards along with ur evidence it forms a strong case..But remember you have to be 1000%sure about abuse..like is it really happening or is it ur over thinking becos of love etc...All The best...Remember America never tolerates abuse in any form on anyone

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   bttn   10/16/2017 08:59 PM  

lets keep it going boys

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Button Camera   news   10/17/2017 05:59 AM  

Just waiting for the news ... parent arrested for recording small children at school, computers seized.

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