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Husband    Helpless Wife   05/05/2017 11:35 PM  

My husband believes more on his parents rather than me .
He believes them blindly and I don't think he loves me atall. He was not even thinking me as a human until I had my child. As he acting love to me because my my mother in law told him maybe I will do something to my kid.

What a foolish husband he is . My breath & my life is my children how can she imagine I will harm my kids & how my husband blindly believes them.


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Re: Husband    AB   05/05/2017 11:55 PM  

Sad for you ! and feel sorry for you. Not sure how can help you but can try !

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Re: Husband    V   05/06/2017 01:27 AM  

That's terrible. I don't know what to say. Even in today's world this kind of things happen. It's not only you but many suffer from the same problem. I guess you need someone to talk to. A companion. Email me may be,

Bob.connecticut (at) gmail.com



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Re: Re: Husband    Genious...doogy yu are sir   05/06/2017 03:30 AM  

Moterchoodi randiii ki aulad then suck.american people dick...our man beter.respect there parents....dony put bullshiy thing in this web go bck indian moterfucker in the dirty toilet...rediculious no manners atleat have some respect

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Re: Husband    Friend   05/06/2017 04:37 AM  

Dear Helpless wife,

There are very bad situations in life which you cannot imagine.Your husband loves you more now because a man loves his daughter's mother more compared to his wife.Men change after having children.He loves you.And do not worry about your mother in law its common for them to become insecure after son is married.I have been physically and mentally abused by my husband and assaulted by mother in law for more dowry.I think you are in a better situation compared to me.Just concentrate on your little daughter and do not become senti.There are many childless people who crave for children.Think on positive side.Remember any human trusts their parents more compared to wife.It will take time or may be years.Think about your daughter and do housework.

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Re: Re: Husband    AB   05/06/2017 08:57 AM  

I would suggest be cool and help yourself with little more listening skills. Some times people talk and fight over something but that may not be the real concern at all ! pay attention to the body language, conversations that may help you to understand what are your husband's concerns. If you understand their real concerns then you may need to determine whether you like to do it or something unreasonable. Let wisdom lead you not sentiments! Wish you good luck !

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Re: Husband    Nicholas.....nicholeanthie1313@gmail.com   05/06/2017 09:24 AM  

so sad really but you dont need any cpmpanion like all this guys are dropping their mail or details..please the only companion you need is only almighty God to direct your ways and touch your heart and your family heart..everything has an expiring date..talk to God and fight stay ...fight for your right...the mother inlaw will surely leave this world for u guys one day and will remain ur kids and husband with you..dont trade ur place for someone else...God is Good all the time..shalom...

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Re: Re: Re: Husband    S   05/06/2017 12:14 PM  

Lol what are you even doing in States? Look at your English. It cracked me up so bad. If you don't want to respect Americans than just go back to India. This is there country and you should respect them. Following Indian culture is one thing but to bash Americans for having there culture is different.

No wonder Trump wants to kick people like you out of states. I wish they track your IP and deport you. :D

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Husband    S   05/06/2017 12:17 PM  

That was meant for (at) Genious doggy u r. Or whatever he was trying to write lol

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Re: Husband    Dest ct advisor   05/06/2017 01:59 PM  

Dear Helpless wife,

Do a favor for yourself and kids and try to focus on your looks and growth and travel with your husband thoughts!!

Looks if you are average you will be average, but try to get fresh look always like his office colleagues wont cost anything!!

Growth if you are on h4 and you cant do anything, but read daily magazines/QUORA after he left and know whats happening in the world and discuss the intresting things with your husband after he comes home.

Ask what your husband dreams, if he want to go to strip club let him allow and ask him how was the lap dance experience.

he want to hang with friends let him hang but request him dont come in night driving while dunk and drive will throw out of usa or if you can drive and pickhim up its great as him to go early so you can pick early.

The above 2 things happens without your concern, even you object also happens without your knowledge then let it happen with your concert and you can use it later.

Just you think urself as his best male friend, and when you people go out put some nice comments about beautiful girl where your husband stares and makes fun of it.

You might feel bad all this things but this all are the qualities what I observed in great social couples who enjoy alot!!

But dont ever say..I mean 100% dont ever praise any real man whom you see even though you felt dont express tell your husband how he can look better, also keep tell your husband how his mother cooks better than you, tell his father is the best father mother is the best mother, try to talk with her infront of your father


Once you are in shoes try to understand perfectly when he behaves what try to be like that, then he actually listen to you and you never have fights.

One more thing scold your relatives infront of your husband he will be more than happy to listen and support you, even though your husband relatives are chutiyas and he likes him, tell they are the best realtives in the world and priase him.

last but not least keep praising infront of your kid how great his father was!!

Bless you Indian Wife!!








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Re: Husband    game   05/06/2017 02:54 PM  

Dont beg love from others
Be strong
Play life game with very care

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Re: Re: Husband    suggestion   05/06/2017 08:07 PM  

These conversations need to be in magazines like Grahshobha or Saheli.

This doesn't seems to be correct place for such post.

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Re: Re: Re: Husband    Reply   05/06/2017 11:54 PM  

Dest ct advisor you may be same worlds most worst person/ might be other lady husband already with equal qualities you mention.

My advice to you what ever you wrote an essay about husband replace word "husband " and write as "wife".

And read your essay now you *****.
Write it down what I am saying now " until wife is adjusting you gents/ husband will have respect. Once she thinks I am done then I am done


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Re: Re: Husband    adv   05/07/2017 08:43 AM  

Desi ct advisor you are a chutiya for giving such a shitty advice. You are a male chauvinist pig who has no regards for women and their dignity.
For the original OP, I sympathize and feel your pain. Once advice is to try to be confident and independent. Being on H4 does not allow you to work, but try to learn to drive and find friends you can hang out be so that you are not totally dependent on your husband. Try to find some volunteer work near your place if possible.
From your post it is not clear what the issue is except that your husband believes you will harm the kid after listening to his mom. Can you tell me how he behaves? Does he scold/hit you. Does he stop you from doing things? Does he not speak to you like a husband wife should talk? What issues are there?

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Re: Re: Re: Husband    Desi thoughts   05/07/2017 09:46 AM  

Lol reply and adv both are females attacking the desi ct advisor !! Listen ladies you born in India so you want to stay with your husband no matter what not like western to leave husband if you don't like !!for that we males are really blessed !! So what's wrong in accepting him and behaving what ever he likes !!

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Re: Husband    Desi   05/07/2017 07:15 PM  

Try exploring FLR (Female Led Relationship). You will never be back...

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Re: Re: Husband    Desi Bachav   05/08/2017 03:37 PM  

Aunty jies please stop discussing your personal problems!! If your MIL is hard, she is hard for some reason!! if you become MIL you also behave naturally the same, its a cycle please accept this and take care of your GOD ( pathi bagwan swaroop hy).

Yeha jo aunties 90% thak desh me state bhi nahi cross kiya hoga, apki pathi ki bajse itna sundar desh agaya, aur vo pathi uski mother ki guidance me bada huva, so you both are directly depend on her mother and father, pooja karo us matha ji ko aur apki husband ko.

Aur Kya chahiy apko.



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