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Helpless Wife |
05/05/2017 11:35 PM |
My husband believes more on his parents rather than me .
He believes them blindly and I don't think he loves me atall. He was not even thinking me as a human until I had my child. As he acting love to me because my my mother in law told him maybe I will do something to my kid.
What a foolish husband he is . My breath & my life is my children how can she imagine I will harm my kids & how my husband blindly believes them.
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AB |
05/05/2017 11:55 PM |
Sad for you ! and feel sorry for you. Not sure how can help you but can try !
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V |
05/06/2017 01:27 AM |
That's terrible. I don't know what to say. Even in today's world this kind of things happen. It's not only you but many suffer from the same problem. I guess you need someone to talk to. A companion. Email me may be,
Bob.connecticut (at) gmail.com
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Friend |
05/06/2017 04:37 AM |
Dear Helpless wife,
There are very bad situations in life which you cannot imagine.Your husband loves you more now because a man loves his daughter's mother more compared to his wife.Men change after having children.He loves you.And do not worry about your mother in law its common for them to become insecure after son is married.I have been physically and mentally abused by my husband and assaulted by mother in law for more dowry.I think you are in a better situation compared to me.Just concentrate on your little daughter and do not become senti.There are many childless people who crave for children.Think on positive side.Remember any human trusts their parents more compared to wife.It will take time or may be years.Think about your daughter and do housework.
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Nicholas.....nicholeanthie1313@gmail.com |
05/06/2017 09:24 AM |
so sad really but you dont need any cpmpanion like all this guys are dropping their mail or details..please the only companion you need is only almighty God to direct your ways and touch your heart and your family heart..everything has an expiring date..talk to God and fight stay ...fight for your right...the mother inlaw will surely leave this world for u guys one day and will remain ur kids and husband with you..dont trade ur place for someone else...God is Good all the time..shalom...
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Dest ct advisor |
05/06/2017 01:59 PM |
Dear Helpless wife,
Do a favor for yourself and kids and try to focus on your looks and growth and travel with your husband thoughts!!
Looks if you are average you will be average, but try to get fresh look always like his office colleagues wont cost anything!!
Growth if you are on h4 and you cant do anything, but read daily magazines/QUORA after he left and know whats happening in the world and discuss the intresting things with your husband after he comes home.
Ask what your husband dreams, if he want to go to strip club let him allow and ask him how was the lap dance experience.
he want to hang with friends let him hang but request him dont come in night driving while dunk and drive will throw out of usa or if you can drive and pickhim up its great as him to go early so you can pick early.
The above 2 things happens without your concern, even you object also happens without your knowledge then let it happen with your concert and you can use it later.
Just you think urself as his best male friend, and when you people go out put some nice comments about beautiful girl where your husband stares and makes fun of it.
You might feel bad all this things but this all are the qualities what I observed in great social couples who enjoy alot!!
But dont ever say..I mean 100% dont ever praise any real man whom you see even though you felt dont express tell your husband how he can look better, also keep tell your husband how his mother cooks better than you, tell his father is the best father mother is the best mother, try to talk with her infront of your father
Once you are in shoes try to understand perfectly when he behaves what try to be like that, then he actually listen to you and you never have fights.
One more thing scold your relatives infront of your husband he will be more than happy to listen and support you, even though your husband relatives are chutiyas and he likes him, tell they are the best realtives in the world and priase him.
last but not least keep praising infront of your kid how great his father was!!
Bless you Indian Wife!!
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Re: Husband |
game |
05/06/2017 02:54 PM |
Dont beg love from others
Be strong
Play life game with very care
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Re: Husband |
Desi |
05/07/2017 07:15 PM |
Try exploring FLR (Female Led Relationship). You will never be back...
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