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Divorce in CT   Desi   04/17/2017 10:18 PM  

Has anyone filed for a divorce in CT I need some advice.

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Re: Divorce in CT   Egour    04/17/2017 11:44 PM  

How many years you got married? What is the main reason for divorce?

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Re: Divorce in CT   Desi Helper   04/18/2017 03:29 PM  

So sad you come to this decision, let us know if you need any help to revoke this decision or why you came to this decision

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Re: Divorce in CT   Sneha   04/18/2017 03:46 PM  

Hi
I request you to not go for this decision atleast now..
please roll back..have a chance to think again pls.

All will be Well



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Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Desii   04/18/2017 04:13 PM  

Married for 4 years. Verbal abuse is continued overall you would think there would be harmony after so many years but same old stuff. I think I would be happier out of this marriage.

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Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Sad Bro   04/18/2017 04:25 PM  

If you have come to this decision as last resort , I think no one can convince at this point.
Do consider state of kids , if any.


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Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   MeTooDesi   04/18/2017 06:20 PM  

what help do you need ? you can file all by yourself or hire an attorney. Usually expect attorney to charge $5000 as retaining fee.

At 4 years of marriage very unlikely you will get any alimony, though you will get child support. You will also need to think about dividing the marital property including household goods and other assets.

just google, divorce in connecticut.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Tanya   04/18/2017 06:25 PM  

Verbal abuse is not such a big thing, it happens in every marriage, but if its getting beyond a certain point without any provocation from your side then divorce is an option . Try seeing a marriage counselor first.

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Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Anu   04/18/2017 08:30 PM  

If u still in the phase that 'u think' u would be happy but not 101% sure that 'u will' be happy out of this marriage then take some time... dont stay with him and go back to India...

Staying alone will give both of you time and space to realize if you are ready to part ways...

I wont say to bear all this at all, stand on your feet and treat him the way he is treating you... dont abuse back but dont talk to him at all...

Consider going back to India for few months, take a break and give your relationship a break too... however i know that a person never changes but i do believe that if there is love, anything can happen... perhaps he might realize your value in his life and you can stay happily ever after...



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   ?   04/18/2017 09:33 PM  

I do t understand one thing how people assumed person in the subject is female?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Helper   04/18/2017 10:12 PM  

I think u guys shud See therapist first work on the ways she or he may prescribe still nt working then go for big decision.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Vinod   04/18/2017 10:24 PM  

If wife working & modern looking with social dresses will be like that.


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Anu   04/19/2017 12:54 AM  

It somehow appeared to me that she is a girl but even if its a boy, my advice would still be the same just that he can read she in place of he everywhere...

But i cannot understand how you are getting effected with this? Its NOT at all important to write something just for the sake of posting when u truly dont have anything to write...

If you cant help anyone, dont just raise your fingers towards others without any reason... its a request Mr.Questionmark

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Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   helper   04/19/2017 04:46 AM  

Go ahead and divorce! Let the partner know how deeply you were wounded by his/her actions.
Or tell your partner that you would like to divorce if this continues and you can no longer tolerate.

Seek help from your parents to check if you are exaggerating and tend to react too much for trivial issues

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   This is mr question mark for Anu   04/19/2017 08:22 AM  

Anu just calm urself down..do u even have an idea how u r talking if u r the same person commenting on the other threads even u shud really calm it down...i just asked how people assumed she is she thats it i did ask in general not in any harm or altered way get the point staright in ur head.when others are calm y u r worries as if ur the saviour..if u r doing good go do it i appreciate but u no need to over react on that. i think u r raising ur finger on everythn unnecesarily dont make me raise my middle finger

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   This is mr question mark for Anu   04/19/2017 08:37 AM  

Anu just calm urself down..do u even have an idea how u r talking if u r the same person commenting on the other threads even u shud really calm it down...i just asked how people assumed she is she thats it i did ask in general not in any harm or altered way get the point staright in ur head.when others are calm y u r worries as if ur the saviour..if u r doing good go do it i appreciate but u no need to over react on that. i think u r raising ur finger on everythn unnecesarily dont make me raise my middle finger

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Divorec   04/19/2017 09:01 AM  

LOl what the matter guys come down. Here is a person that too a man not a woman asking about divorce questions. That can be easily understood by his questions.
His wife is using abuse words towards him & even he may also used but not that much as his wife .
May be he want to use "!abuse" reson to get separate from her

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Bharani sagar   04/19/2017 09:03 AM  

I think he might have another lady in his mind !!!



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Desi   04/19/2017 09:31 AM  

To help you guys out, I am a women experiencing this problem.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Sachin   04/19/2017 09:46 AM  

Indian culture is harsh on women. Its going to be the same another India guy.
Dont waste your one and only life with useless fellows.

But if you have a kid then try to adjust as the child will need his father but you may not need a husband.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Guliver   04/19/2017 09:58 AM  

Yes if women as a mother my be she tolerated by his husband upto peek level. Now if you are working and can be able to hold your kid with out support or with out marrying another person would be great idea.

If you marry another person you're kid will face problem including you in future.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Desiii for questionmark   04/19/2017 03:52 PM  

U r overreacting here questionmark as i also didnt see anything wrong or overreacting in her comment... but look at the way u talking? Raising your middle finger? Is that the way to talk? She asked about raising fingers which is general means kisi pe ungli uthana but u went wayyy down...

It doesnt matters if she is the savior or not, but even our own girls are not safe within our own ppl who without understanding start abusing... she wrote its a request to u and wt u wrote in rerurn?

I cudnt find anything wrong or abusive anywhere in her comments and there are many many ppl with same name here so dont judge all in one... u never know who is posting what and maintain a little bit decency plz.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Anu   04/19/2017 05:37 PM  

I too was saying in general, not in anger or commenting... just the way u were saying it in general sense...

Written post can be interpreted in as manys as a person wants by reading it in a tone that anyone wants...

I have not said or meant anything wrong to anyone ever in any thread and i wont tolerate any abuses too... and neither did i claimed to be anybody's saviour...

I cant say anything wrong or abuse you back because at the end of the day, i have to face my own self and thats just not me... i dont have time to discuss this with you any further so this conversation ends from my side... peace!!!


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   ?   04/20/2017 09:47 AM  

Oh yeah oh really vowww...now...if u read the way u posted ul understand how and what tone it is and how u attacked.. just my post is below ur comment it doesnt mean i asked u..and desi for questionmark stop supporting and without even knowing dont blindly encourage.If u wanna do encourage its ur job but dont criticise me ..what u think raising fingers is my job
Atleast not..never ever in usa say that raising fingers is general word..

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce in CT   Desiii   04/20/2017 05:28 PM  

Didnt knew that the comments posted are to be according to USA guidelines... thought it to be indian...

The way u r reacting shows u dont want to listen so no point arguing... but i can bet that an indian writing raising fingers means ungli uthaana for sure... and the ones who abuse, write middle finger...

Anyways im not interested... i cant talk like that with someone's daughter/sister/wife/or perhaps mother too... and so told u that u interpreted it wrong... but u started back at me... its u who need to calm down... last comment from me on this...

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