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Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   Ankita   09/12/2020 12:50 PM  

Hi I had my 30th birthday 6 months back. We postponed having kids, as I was doing my Masters, and currently looking for job. What's the best option here? My current thought is to try to have kids now, then try for job after as my age is getting higher.

Or should I wait to get a job and after 6 months try to get pregnant so that we are more financially stable, and may be buy a house etc...I understand sometimes it takes long time just to get pregnant.Please share your thoughts?

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Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   Well wisher.   09/12/2020 04:54 PM  

Stay away from negative people. Talk to the positive energies around you.

Sit in silence, talk to your innerself, calm down relax and think of the best possible way.

You will get your answer.

Everyone is vibrating at there own frequency, wavelength or time. Only you know the right answer.

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Re: Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   desi   09/12/2020 07:15 PM  

get a job first, all the expenses and maternity leave will be covered...

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Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   CT Babu   09/14/2020 02:45 PM  

ok a get Job then in 6 months will you be financially stable?
you are already too old 30 and your eggs would be deing already day by day and your M cycle will stop soon.

If you cry later dont have kids nothing comes back, butif job you can try later also

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Re: Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   CT babu fan   09/16/2020 02:50 PM  

may be straight forward but agree with CT Babu...money and house can earn at any time in life but having kids is a god given gift and you have to do it on time...

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Re: Re: Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   tryboth   09/17/2020 09:16 AM  

Try both NOW, and let fate decide. If you get pregnant you will still have 5-6 more months to keep looking for a job, don't need to stop looking as soon as you get pregnant. People easily work until 8th month. If you get a job sooner all the better. Maternity leave will be covered.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   kk   09/17/2020 01:55 PM  

forget about Job if you are planning for kids, its a big big responsibility, it will keep you busy 24*7

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Pregnancy age- helpful thoughts?   fem   09/21/2020 09:31 PM  

KK what an irresponsible advice. Are you living in the 17th century or something? In this era women can have a job and kids - just get out from under the rock that you are living in. There are so many working women who are also mothers. Plus raising a child is both parents job, not just mothers.

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