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Boy Friend or husband?   Desi wife   10/11/2019 02:04 PM  

Well he is my office colleague and divorced, he is so nice guy his wife is not so good left him.
my husband is not taking care of me nicely, is it wise to choose this guy who earns well and young active? my husband is having diabetes BP not sure life with him is like starving food, carving food not physically active and no more future with him.

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Re: Boy Friend or husband?   BF   10/11/2019 03:26 PM  

please select bf, it is your life..

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Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Desi   10/11/2019 06:29 PM  

Use you BF for your physical needs , but stick with your husband

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Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   raj   10/11/2019 07:42 PM  

Sometimes you have to take risk, analyze why his first wife left him, just dont go over his looks, he may dump you as well . so be careful

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Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   CT guy   10/11/2019 09:42 PM  

Does your bf have GC?

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Re: Boy Friend or husband?   desi   10/11/2019 10:14 PM  

my best advice.... try hooking up your husband with your other women and you hook up with ths guy !! and satisfy your needs... but stick with your husband cuz you are married... just spice up our life.... dont spoil it !!

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Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   raj   10/11/2019 10:48 PM  

where is other woman? what are you talking about

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Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   desi   10/12/2019 08:34 AM  

(at) Raj, I am advising her to get into a open relationship where her husband can also have fun with other woman... like start him giving signals like lets experiment in sex or swinging... this way once he starts tasting others his sex life will reboot ( I guess?) and she can enjoy herself too..


(at) wife... is your husband a workholic or stressed cuz of his work and immigration status ? some critical thinkers are effected too much by this... ask him to start exercising and approach life from a different angle.. and support him through this journey

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Sri   10/12/2019 08:38 AM  

desi you watch too many movies, are u fing kidding me, this is ridiculous advice, do you know any single person who does something like this, its not movies its real world, such things do not happen among people like us unless you are ghetto

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Two words of wisdom    10/12/2019 10:22 AM  

Are you kidding me ? You are looking for another guy because your husband has medical conditions now. And remind me you are the one who chose him earlier because he was the best one when you could not find any better. And now he has a situation and you want to move on to someone, how justified is that ? What if, god forbid, you get a medical condition, and he decides to dump you ? All I can say is that health is so unpredictable so don’t take anyone’s for granted. But of course it’s your life.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Desi wife   10/12/2019 10:34 AM  

Shut your mouth. He is diabetic and BP
Patient, there is no cure for him.
He cant even eat sweets with me, he dont know how to be joveal, my colleague is good and humurous.


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Two word of wisdom.    10/12/2019 11:20 AM  

I know what are prognosis of DM II and HTN, as I am a doctor myself. And I have seen families being more supportive to and I have seen people recovering from diseases with llove, care and support. Anyways, Good luck to you !

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Two words of wisdom    10/12/2019 11:42 AM  

Raine-Riggs : reality check

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Kkumari   10/12/2019 02:40 PM  

I support you women being the women.I have same problem with my husband but I am struggling with this guy from 15 years. Unfortunately I am not so beautiful so no Bf.
If Husband is having diabetes only life will be hell and we dont eat sweets and with Bp you cant even eat salt and pepper what else one makes in yome then.No outside dinners nothing.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Wise    10/12/2019 06:25 PM  

Op,

If you are in your husband shoes, what would you do??

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Abc   10/13/2019 02:14 AM  

Where the hell world is going.
I see these sort of ppl more and more..

I am not sure how ur husband looks or behaves or has medical condition..

But I am surprised to see u r taking his medical condition as ground to choose the other person who is a co worker and is divorced... very bad human being you are.

Why you are looking for advise when you already know what you want from life..

Do you really need suggestion or you want to just justify pulicly how idiot selfish you are..

I feel leaving your husband is best for your husband actually.. so he does not live with a fake person a fake life. You loser...






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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Desi wife   10/13/2019 09:24 AM  

Dear Abc,
My husband is a money machine,
24*7 work holic, always money
Money .. says he is doing for family
Lol. He got diabetes and bp due to his
Over work which is result of his over work load which is not my fault. I dobt know where the world will go all I need is my happyness.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Abc   10/13/2019 07:39 PM  

Ethics meant different to different ppl


Discuss your issues with your Husband. Try. Discuss what you want from him and life and ask for a balance life in a nicer possible way, specially becoz he is medically ill. Be reasonable with your demands as he may want diff things from life too.. try to stay somewhere in between of what u need and he needs..

And wait to see the results.. if no improvements, give him ultimatum that this can result in end of relation..

Give ur relation a chance..

Or if you are very much attracted to ur co worker and decided to move on becoz u want ur happiness right away, am not sure why u r asking for suggestions.. u may be want the world to say u r not guilty.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Desi wife   10/13/2019 09:04 PM  

Thank you Abc for your valuable suggestions.

Yes certainely I will give a chance but I am looking for some experience people who faced or their friends faced this situation finally ended with what?

I am worried the neighbour might dump me later, then will this husband who is ex will take care of that? or he will also dump me.

Problem with current husband is he worked 18 hours a day saying Project go-lives bull shit and Targets saying working for 2 projects my foot. Now he is diabetic where there is no cure in this world, he will die soon may be like 50 if not 55, so why should I relay on him.


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Abc   10/13/2019 09:52 PM  

The other problems are there but...
Diabetes is not curable but not life threatening. People can live as long as other non diabetic live. I know many who lived 80 or older with it.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   love boy   10/14/2019 09:13 AM  

well what you exactly wants to do with your life?

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Re: Boy Friend or husband?   desi1   10/14/2019 09:41 AM  

Desi Wife as much as I want to empathize with you and say go ahead - how would you feel if the situation is reversed. Lets say tomorrow you find out you have a disease, would you want your present husband or future husband to leave you for another - 'healthy' lady? So the cycle continues where any time someone is sick, they are dumped? Wow , what a world would that be?

What you need are friends and close relatives with whom you can do things like eating sweets and going to restaurants .

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Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Desi wife   10/14/2019 10:38 AM  

His father died at age of 42 due to diabetes, so not guarantee my Husband will stay that long?

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Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   DHEERAJ   10/14/2019 11:11 AM  

REY DESI don't give fucking advice, everyone has their own happiness, pleasures, you might be getting satisfied by chatting all the time on CTDESI site, but one day i pray it should happen to you !! don't you have your mom, and don't you have a sister will you give them the same advice!!or if you are a married person will you do the same to your wife too!!!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Abc   10/14/2019 09:03 PM  

Dheeraj is her coworker/ current boyfriend.. posting by changing name..

Dheeraj - u fall sick and your wife goes for an affair. Does it feel good now.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Crazy   10/15/2019 06:18 AM  

Still looking for BF???


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   DHEERAJ   10/15/2019 01:58 PM  

rey ABC fuck my Dick you feel relaxed, i know you are suffering with Anxiety, i know most of the Indians are having BP, cholesterol you are one of them. can you do one thing i think your wife is pretty if you cant come and do that ask your wife will show how smart i am!! Bosidikay

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Ct Tejam   10/15/2019 02:27 PM  

Dheeraj sala badu mama vadedho vaguthadu aath care,

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Abc   10/15/2019 11:47 PM  

Dheeraj- u r showing ur riality. Nd take some english classes.. dont know how they give Visa to any stupid.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   Indian   10/16/2019 07:19 AM  

Hello Mr.Abc u should learn some moral values or ethics. Later u can advice other people.



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Re: Boy Friend or husband?   desi   10/16/2019 07:21 AM  

1st stop posting questions and answers with different names.

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Re: Boy Friend or husband?   ct   10/16/2019 07:23 AM  

Hello Desi wife, you can do whatever you like. Dont play the games.

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Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   curious   10/16/2019 09:06 AM  

so what you thought?can you please handle two bf.

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Re: Re: Re: Boy Friend or husband?   desi   10/16/2019 10:09 AM  

bhago sab ke sab bhosadiwalon, koi kam dhandha nahi hai, faltu mein chudur chudur kar rahe ho

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