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| One vs two kids |
Kids |
08/24/2019 04:20 PM |
I have a 4 y.o child and we are quite happy and content with him but then hear all the times that you should have two kids. As they grow old they should have company. I know there is no right or wrong answer but those of you who have 2 kids can they please suggest what their thoughts are. I know once you have a child you will love him/her unconditionally but is there one choice better than the other ? Thanks
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| Re: One vs two kids |
desi |
08/24/2019 07:20 PM |
Trust me 2 more more kids is the way t go!! Single kid is also great but the more the merrier.. you will have a purpose in life and kids bring emotions, memories and enrichment to life !!
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| Re: One vs two kids |
urfreind |
08/27/2019 08:31 AM |
My two cents is two kids is the way to go. Not only when the grow older, but even in younger age they will have each others, company. When you go on trips vacations etc., having two kids is a boon as they can keep each other busy and you can give more time to each other rather than having to keep the single child occupied. Even at home, two kids will keep each other busy. Of course this comes with additional financial and literal headache due to the siblings fighting and not getting along all the time.
In the end its an individual choice. There is no right or wrong option here. Weigh the pros and cons and ten decide. But, do it quickly. The bigger the gap the less they will have in common and therefore may not spend time with each other that much.
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| Re: One vs two kids |
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08/28/2019 10:22 AM |
I am a mom of 2. My elder one is 6 and baby is just 4 months. We also decided to hv 1 child so never tried for second. Although my kid always wanted and asked for a sibling to play with.
But suddenly i lost my father whom i was closest to and inspite of having everyone in my life, i was all alone. Till today i feel all alone. That made me realize that after me and my husband, my kid is going to be all alone and trust me, thats the worst feeling.
Now we are more than happy with a baby and re living our kid's childhood again. Parents cannot stay forever. Two is always better. My kid is crazy for the baby and is always happy. Hope it helps.
As for finances, its a saying at our place that aanewala apni kismat saath lata hai so dont worry.
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