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Depressed in married life |
Peace |
03/24/2019 12:34 PM |
My husband is a short guy and he has inferiority complex cz if that. To overcome this he bodyshames me alot. I am not an overweight female. My diet is moderate with gym too. Sometimes he is very rude and it hurts me a lot. I feel bad for him at times. But i cannot share anything with him due to his nature.i donno what to do
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Re: Depressed in married life |
Peace |
03/24/2019 12:55 PM |
Life is hard when rue lifepartner is like this. Insensitive and unapologetic. I long for peace very often. I was very chirpy. Now a days i prefer to be silent. Started loving silence. I fail to tackle my husband and his behaviour
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Re: Depressed in married life |
People== Shit |
03/24/2019 08:35 PM |
Die
Don't share ur ass problems with people. nobody will help anyway
your life has been ruined.
better to commit suicide
One lost life will never change mankind
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Re: Depressed in married life |
ctdesi |
03/24/2019 09:06 PM |
to understand the problem statement correctly...what is your height and what's your husbands?
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Re: Depressed in married life |
sajid |
03/26/2019 11:59 AM |
hello (Peace):
I am deeply sadden by your situation, Marriage is joke it involved lots of commitments, compromises to each other....it gives meaning to live: how come the guy behave you this way? then why did he marry you:
anyway now you need to sit with him and discuss with him your do and don'ts see if he is mentally ok, if not then need to find solution by taking this issue to your parents and solve it. if required do take help from professional counselling.
If love isn't functioning like the sun, it's just a pen light.
love is important in marriage? its about commitment and hard work, accommodating to another's needs, health issues and emotionality. No one stays the same, and marriages are essentially an emotionally gymnasium that you either work at and get bulging wisdom muscles, or you're just a visitor waiting for your membership to expire.
he should come to compromise and know where he is the boss at work and you are the boss at home. These boundaries work for everyone.
There are more important things to worry about on a daily basis. he should know someone who's got my back when sickness, disability or poverty strike.
love is the secret sauce, but commitment, loyalty and discipline are far more important for becoming a cordon bleu chef in love's kitchen.
if the bond of love among the couples is strong enough then it will give the courage to love each other. Until love is real, everything else is just shadows.
Good luck
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Re: Depressed in married life |
sajid |
03/26/2019 12:23 PM |
Dear don't be panic,
clear his misconceptions abt his height, teach him how to love himself first, this will make him realize love has one face, radiating in separate directions. If love isn't functioning like the sun, it's just a pen light.
Marriage is about commitment and hard work accommodating to another's needs, health issues, emotionality.
you only can solve this issue, because you know each other.
good luck,
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Re: Depressed in married life |
sajid |
03/26/2019 01:12 PM |
Dear don't be panic,
clear his misconceptions abt his height, teach him how to love himself first, this will make him realize love has one face, radiating in separate directions. If love isn't functioning like the sun, it's just a pen light.
Marriage is about commitment and hard work accommodating to another's needs, health issues, emotionality.
you only can solve this issue, because you know each other.
good luck,
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Re: Depressed in married life |
sajid |
03/26/2019 01:19 PM |
hello (Peace):
I am deeply sadden by your situation, Marriage is joke it involved lots of commitments, compromises to each other....it gives meaning to live: how come the guy behave you this way? then why did he marry you:
anyway now you need to sit with him and discuss with him your do and don'ts see if he is mentally ok, if not then need to find solution by taking this issue to your parents and solve it. if required do take help from professional counselling.
If love isn't functioning like the sun, it's just a pen light.
love is important in marriage? its about commitment and hard work, accommodating to another's needs, health issues and emotionality. No one stays the same, and marriages are essentially an emotionally gymnasium that you either work at and get bulging wisdom muscles, or you're just a visitor waiting for your membership to expire.
he should come to compromise and know where he is the boss at work and you are the boss at home. These boundaries work for everyone.
There are more important things to worry about on a daily basis. he should know someone who's got my back when sickness, disability or poverty strike.
love is the secret sauce, but commitment, loyalty and discipline are far more important for becoming a cordon bleu chef in love's kitchen.
if the bond of love among the couples is strong enough then it will give the courage to love each other. Until love is real, everything else is just shadows.
Good luck
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