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need advice please help :( |
S |
07/06/2018 06:42 PM |
Hi everyone, I need an advice please help me out, I am so not at peace these days. I like a girl at my workplace, I love her more than anything. But i have no idea how she feels about me, we are not even good friends, we just work at same place so sometimes we talk. I want to tell her how much i love her and how i can do anything just to see her happy. But I am afraid if she said no, things will get really awkward after that. We work really close to each other and if she said no, whenever we will have an eye contact, it will be a very cringy moment for both of us. I am also scared she might tell others in the workplace that I asked her out and they might think wow what a weirdo, creeping on girls like that. But on the other hand, if i don't tell her, I will always have the regret that I should have asked her out, she might have said yes. I can't focus on anything now a days, all i think about is her. Last week she got into a road accident, and oh boy i can't even tell how much helpless i felt, i wanted to be there for her at all times but as someone who's just a coworker i just went to hospital and gave her some chocolates and came back. I literally cried for her after coming back. Please help me, give me some advice I am in a big dilemma here.
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ST |
07/06/2018 06:57 PM |
You don't poop where you eat man..keep it clean at work place..it will be horrible for your focus at work. I would advice against asking her out..you will be screwed either way..10 years of experience speaking here..have seen multiple messed up cases like this..
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M |
07/06/2018 09:01 PM |
Ask her out for a coffee, talk about personal stuff other than work. if she vibes with you, make a weekly outing a thing with her !! and one fine day !! BOOM !! throw a Ring at her !! and 2 years from that day picture yourself with a fair baby in your arms and she beside you !! BOOM !! Now wake up from sleep and get back to work !! cheap labor !!
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RT |
07/07/2018 09:32 AM |
Love at this age? Put your profile in matrimony and send her link
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Re: need advice please help :( |
KhadaLund |
07/08/2018 02:19 AM |
Just say it, dude..she will appreciate no matter she says yes or no..you have guts and you are honest to reveal your feelings...even if she says no, there is no question of things getting awkward. She might start showing interest in you later if not now because of your honesty. But yes, before revealing to her abruptly, start talking to her and when you are about to say...choose the right moment..when things are appropriate..like a calm quite place...say it on friday..that will give both of you adequeate time either sink into this beautiful feeling ..think over it..you may get lucky over weekends for a movie or dinner.
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