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Why?   Narsingh   04/11/2018 08:14 PM  

Guys, i am new to USA and my roommate is from some vilage near hyderabad, whenever I cook something and as soon as I am done, he comes running to the kitchen to see what i am eating, exactly samething happened with my previous roommate and he is also from the same area.it happens every single time. I am just curious why he does that, we do not share groceries and cook separately so it does not make sense. its getting highly annoying, can someone tell me why he does that...

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Re: Why?   CT    04/11/2018 08:21 PM  

He’s considering you as his friend and would just love to know what you made for dinner. As long as he don’t eat your food every day without helping I think there is no problem.

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Re: Why?   kumar   04/11/2018 08:35 PM  

Is he a vegetarian?

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Re: Why?   M   04/11/2018 09:09 PM  

maybe he is in directly checking on you if you used any of his groceries !! haha

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Re: Why?   suggestion   04/11/2018 09:18 PM  

instead of posting here, talk to him directly, but politely.

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Re: Why?   S   04/11/2018 09:38 PM  

Yeah man, he is just used to being over friendly with room mates. I know it can be an issue; you should talk to him and let him know you are not comfortable with it. If not directly, email him

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Re: Re: Why?   Vinod   04/11/2018 10:34 PM  

Tell him on his face. U need to live a comfortable life. Both are adults.

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Re: Why?   Simple   04/11/2018 10:44 PM  

Cook something awful and force him to eat....he will stop then.

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Re: Why?   Udecide   04/11/2018 11:04 PM  

Just tell him what you are going to cook beforehand. He just seems curiously and if u inform him he will leave you alone hopefully. Other option is to bluntly tell him to mind his business.


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Re: Re: Why?   gabbar   04/12/2018 02:29 AM  

Instead of creating a problem, grow up sir. we are living in diversified country, where you would get an opportunity to learn, adopt different culture, food and knowledge sharing. try to mingle-up and start cooking together. At the end no one come and help you except immediate person with you live.

Be open up and expand yourself.. cook together and stay healthy!

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Re: Re: Re: Why?   Narsingh   04/12/2018 07:53 AM  

Thanks for all the replies, but the way he looks at the food is really unnerving and it happens every single time, he comes out of bathroom as soon as h hears the sound of dishes, may be some sort of psychological disorder..I thought of talking to him about it, but I am worried he may get offended...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   grow up   04/12/2018 10:25 AM  

you have a disorder not him. You should be calling him to cook with you together.

When i cook i call all my roomies to taste. They appreciate it and i get immense happiness in sharing it.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   suggestion   04/12/2018 10:34 AM  

I think this 'grow up' guy is your roommate. Feels like you offended him and now he is asking you to share.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   Indian   04/13/2018 12:19 PM  

Lol , one more kido above. You are truly a retard

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   why   04/13/2018 03:04 PM  

Narsingh - if you have problem with me you could have told me directly, I will not look into your food now.

I am looking for new apartment also.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   Narsingh    04/13/2018 03:12 PM  

Ok,,get the hell of out my apartment today itself. I don't want to see your face from tomorrow.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   advice   04/13/2018 08:45 PM  

are you a human being? treat everyone politely pls

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why?   Garg   04/13/2018 09:30 PM  

Situation is not real nor the Feku Narsingh.
Just stupid topic on linguistic discrepancy.

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