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Need advice   Good Friend   03/19/2018 03:31 PM  

I have a beautiful family. My husband and I have very good jobs and we both are good looking. My two kids are very smart in studies and well behaved. We have no visa hassles. We lead a good life. I don't mean to boost ourselves but trying to explain my situation here. We have one thing lacking is friends. The people are always mean to us and not sure why? Is it because We both are straight forward and don't understand the politics? Though I get compliments at my job all the time for my problem solving skills, I can't figure it out why we are not able to get good friends. It sounds simple and silly but trust me, it is not. I always feel lonely.

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Re: Need advice   Ct Desi   03/19/2018 03:50 PM  

There may be others just like you here, I suggest y'all try to hangout and see if any of you can be friends.

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Re: Need advice   AB   03/19/2018 04:45 PM  

First of all be happy ! You are doing great and much better than many others here !!

About friends, get into some social activities and get involve with more people that way you may be able to find some like minded people. Sometimes we are too much in comfort zone and does not welcome others much! try with few and see how that goes.

one more thing, It is not about friends count but quality matters more!

All the best !

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Re: Need advice   Ct adv   03/19/2018 06:01 PM  

Agreed .. trust me with friends he'll is also heaven and without friends heaven is also he'll. Can you give examples whay you mean by mean ? So would able to give some solution if possible .

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Re: Re: Need advice   CT   03/19/2018 07:58 PM  

we cannot have everything. Would you rather prefer having family issues and lack of job security while having lot of friends? I am on similar boat, probably one of the loneliest Indian out here in CT. Some days I don’t even talk to people. Throughout past several years, I tried making friends but never succeeded, always ended up in how are you I’m fine kind of relationship. The only real Indian friend I have always use me for his advantage. He being my only friend, I just go along....

I am very used to my lifestyle, very soon getting married and hopefully have a good life once I bring her here....hang in there...be happy for what you have...friends comes and goes, good one stays. ..enjoy your beautiful life..God bless!

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Re: Re: Re: Need advice   Good friends    03/20/2018 02:56 PM  

Where do u live?

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