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Do i need to say it out   BB   03/16/2018 07:18 PM  

Im in a committed realtionship with this nice handsome guy we r madly in love with each other or until now and supposed to marry too...Both the families agreed after a long battle. Everything good but for the past
few weeks I started having not so good feelings towards him. Nothing has happened but im not that ok and i dont hv anybody in my life so dont assume cheating or something.why this happening to me

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Re: Do i need to say it out   N   03/16/2018 07:25 PM  

Probably you are nervous because of your marriage. Everything is sorted, so now you have overcome everything, you got time for yourself to think about it. In my opinion knowingly or unknowingly your mind is evaluating pros and cons. Whether you want to spend your entire life with the same person. Thinking about things you don't like about him, and evaluating if you want to go ahead and let go of your dislikes towards him for the rest of your life. This could be one reason.

Second reason is thrill of affair or a relationship. When you are in a relationship you are adventurous. You have to face many battles together, thinking about life, planning life, thinking on how you will convince your parents etc. One everything is settled, there are no adventures left.

So think about the reason I gave, and see if any of them applies to you.

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Re: Do i need to say it out   AB   03/16/2018 10:03 PM  

N given a reasonable answer !

There is a saying

When two people fall in love,
M Male, F Female

If M fool, F fool => they marry !
If M Fool, F smart => breakup/divorce !
if M smart, F fool => pregnant/children
if M Smart, F Smart => Never marry; love stay for ever !

I think you are kind of realizing some part of it.. Do not worry.. disaster does not wait !!! it comes anyway without asking !

Intent is not to upset you but help you to think about it !

either way we get screwed so make a choice and try to live with it!


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Re: Re: Do i need to say it out   life   03/17/2018 07:18 AM  

Just coz you think there is nothing else in life to achieve, keep planning for your future milestones and work towards, just life.

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Re: Re: Re: Do i need to say it out   Desi   03/17/2018 12:02 PM  

AB: You need someone to take care of you in old age

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do i need to say it out   AB   03/17/2018 12:32 PM  

ha ha.. Good Point !

Unfortunately there is no guarantee that someone is going to take care of us in old age !

Only time will tell that

Sometimes kids do care care of us to some extent

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