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Losing my mind   Im doomed   02/26/2018 04:41 PM  


My 14th month baby is driving me nuts...he wont eat properly everytime he plays if he gets sick he becomes extra needy.He wont sleep well at night.My husband helps me lot for which im thankful infinetly but sometimes cos of work he is stressin out too.I never want to put any pressure on his life with that being said im not a pro in handling 24 hrs. Im unable to handle this stress.Mom s what u do usually pls let me know i will go insane if this stess is not handled. Thinking of going to India but when i visited last time thatweather pollution suck hell out of us he suffered viral fever and diarrohea do not want to go thru that stages again...I dunno waht to do

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Re: Losing my mind   Mommy   02/26/2018 05:17 PM  

Trust me iam in also sailing in same boat & my lo is 16 months& sooke to many other friends also,kinda same story everywhere.

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Re: Losing my mind   Ak   02/26/2018 05:50 PM  

Get your parents or his parents for help.

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Re: Losing my mind   Saradha   02/26/2018 07:36 PM  

You know one think, i am daily crying when i am alone. As we don't have kids still even after 4 years of married life. you're stress is far better than this stress i am guess.


Sorry if i said something wrong.

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Re: Re: Losing my mind   Im doomed   02/26/2018 09:25 PM  

Yes saradha i understand that pain one of my best friend is going thru that same pain too...u know only this kind of feelings sometimes bounce me back from feeling hell thinking that its such a blessing..I love him tremendously but mind is mind and body is body right. it get stressed in between.Right from day 1 after his birth nothing was easy for me i pumped 8 times a day when he was unable to latch and continued for almost an yr and after that lot of other things all these things i did wholeheartedly with zero compalints but now a days i dunno y im this stressed. he has no other problems other than playing. I know kids r bound to play but i dunno how i should gain my energy.

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Re: Re: Re: Losing my mind   To saradha   02/26/2018 09:31 PM  

Dont worry god will surely bless u with a beautiful healthy baby...4 years is not such a long time dont feel negative.

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Re: Losing my mind   Hope this helps   02/27/2018 12:39 PM  

let him have a lot of physical activity or send him to a class where more physical activity is required. get him hungry then feed him. at the end of the day hell feel tired and go to sleep. this worked with my cousin

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Re: Losing my mind   Mother of Infant   02/27/2018 01:10 PM  

May be try this tips..

Give a bath for him twice a day..it just take 10 minutes but will make lot of difference once before bed time in the night and once in the afternoon after his lunch..

Check if his milk taking makes his tummy full..if required skip milk before 3 hours of lunchtime.

try to take him to places where he can play with other kids or to library.

Try to change the recipe for him every day and check which one he likes most.

try in little quantity and then increase quantity very little every time.

Regarding your sleep..take u r husband help during weekends.if possible hang out with friends for one or two hours by leaving u r kid with your husband.This makes lot of difference.

Put him in stoller and go for a walk with him.

Hope this might help you..



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Re: Re: Losing my mind   Id   02/28/2018 09:59 AM  

Thanks friends

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