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Unromatic marriage relationship	Advice needed	02/11/2018 02:20 PM
Hi so I have a relationship with my husband for 4 years and it is becoming unromatic day by day. Today I was joking with him and asked him what are you getting me for Valentine's day he's like I'm not getting you nothing. Lol. I'm fine without anything but the moral is that I just don't fit quite in with him romantically. Even when it comes to intimacy I feel that it's just not there.... Reply

Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	JM	02/11/2018 02:31 PM
You are not alone here my friend ! I am married male ! There can be many advice but most of them are not practical. You know most what works and not ! Divorce is not a solution too especially in most cases especially if we have kids ! It is just not possible to make kids suffer which is not there mistake . Not sure what situation you are in but I am sure many of us are in same boat ! Not sure what best advice bust do which ever best works for you! no need to feel bad about anything; after all it is your life, some times it is just you who needs to be convinced what you should do ! Good luck Reply

Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	Lady	02/11/2018 02:38 PM
Okay. Thanks for your input, at least in not alone... lol Reply

Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	put some spice in it	02/11/2018 02:39 PM
I think you should bring spice to your sex life. Me and my wife were facing the same situation when my american friend told me about this role playing thing. Its not only limited to role playing, BDSM is another example, depends on what you are into. Do some research on how to spice up your sex life, it will surely make things better. Reply

Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	Lady	02/11/2018 02:43 PM
Oh my god... I could never role play with him. That's just not possible. Why do we become uninterested with our spouse just don't understand. Reply

Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	put some spice in it	02/11/2018 03:36 PM
It is human nature to get tired of doing same thing over and over again. You can't even eat same food for one whole month, how can you expect that you guys don't loose interest in each other. This will always happen in most of the marriages regardless of how much you were in love before. So in order to keep things going, you need to do the same thing differently. Just like when you cook the same dish through some different recipe, it tastes a lot better. You get my point? And if you can't imagine role playing, do some other thing that makes your husband happy. Do some research on spicing up sex life, there are tons of ideas out there and you just have to choose one, ONLY ONE, that works for you and you will get back on track. Reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	put some spice in it	02/11/2018 03:44 PM
And once in a while, when nobody is home dress sexy. All men like women dressed sexy, put some lingerie on to excite your husband, maybe this will work for you, haha. Reply

Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	lucky	02/11/2018 04:02 PM
Romance is not sex and many idiots dont get it just like the spice it poster. It just disappears after marriage slowly comes back but then people will be old. Just treat your spouse as your college mate that you are trying to impress. Reply

Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	put some spice in it	02/11/2018 04:33 PM
lucky, You might want to keep your unpopular opinion with you. Sex is an extremely important part of romantic relationship. We humans were born to reproduce and if it was not true and as per you we were just born to romantically interact with our partners, our species would have been extinct few thousand years ago. Please get your facts right before misguiding others. And I am totally not saying that this is the case 100 percent of the time, you might be very satisfied with your romantic relationship without sex, which is why you are guiding her to do the same. But you are the exception, most of the population is not. Its your opinion, not a fact. Reply

Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	Thank yoj	02/11/2018 04:46 PM
I will try to do things differently thanks for your input. It helped alot. It always feel great to discuss topics on here and getting good opinion. Reply

Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	A decent boy	02/11/2018 08:28 PM
Oh four years are very short span when it comes to indian marriages. People like to do different things to increase the intimacy ,romantic things and love .. as per men concerned they have great responsibility of family and try different things in US, hope you already know those. They loose interest on wife instead they want to hang out with friends and roam. It’s my personal view may be I know less about marriages because I m unmarried . Reply

Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	JM	02/11/2018 10:46 PM
There are different ways to try making married life work however if you tried many things I would think, you are kind of loosing interest? If you don't mind email me, we can talk more? jobbym (at) mail.com Reply

Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	Lady	02/11/2018 10:50 PM
Can you talk here please. We will also take your input. Reply

Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	JM	02/11/2018 11:04 PM
That is fine too ! I thought it might help better to have an email conversation ! Reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	Lday	02/11/2018 11:08 PM
No dear. No lady will share email ids or contact number.. My humble request don’t waste your time on these. Reply

Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	Decent guy	02/11/2018 11:35 PM
Mail me at decent_guy4 (at) aol.com Reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Unromatic marriage relationship	QQ	02/11/2018 11:35 PM
some of these ladies are fake though ! they just wanted to hear stories.. ! Reply

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