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Rude indians? |
Curious indian |
11/10/2017 11:41 PM |
I know its big generalization but its about majority of desis in US.
Why r indians so cold, which appears rude. Why they so reluctant to adapt to local culture?
Just a small example, most of desis would never greet anyone in public setting. Even when theres no language barrier. We so seldom smile at people or even smile back or greet back warmly.
Is it inferiority complex at play? Or superiority complex? Or something else?
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Re: Rude indians? |
Desi |
11/11/2017 04:02 AM |
Yeah combination of all the above, even most other Asians,Jews,middle eastern people, africans are the same way, it usually white Americans who are polite...
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Re: Rude indians? |
American |
11/11/2017 05:02 AM |
Indians are product of caste inbreeding so nothing is normal with them.
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Re: Rude indians? |
Change |
11/11/2017 10:39 AM |
I also felt the same...whites do greet, exchange smiles in office too....but we Indians tend not to do so...I personally smile or nod my head when ever I see a fellow desi but never received any response back...May be we can start to be the change we want to see...Lets start greeting others with smile and see how it goes ...
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my 3 cents |
11/13/2017 04:17 PM |
wow, look where this thread started and what is being discussed now.
Back to the topic, its not that only Indians are rude. There are many others that are rude even in USA. Parts like NE, Cali, etc are friendlier but there are parts that are not. A few years ago I thought the same that Indians are rude but now I smile and say how are you to all Indians just the way we say to non Indians and almost all reply warmly.
Also, if someone smiles and ask you how are you, doesn't mean they are not rude. They just have friendly outlook but behind our back, they have their not so 'friendly' opinions and chatter about Indians.
Basically, people all over the world are the same when you go beyond those 'How are you' greetings. Just try asking a bit more like did you had your breakfast, how is your family, etc, most of them will avoid you.
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