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Domestic violence from partner   Concerned    11/04/2017 11:56 AM  

Hi guys, so recently I've noticed after having good kids my husband behavior has changed drastically where he cannot control his anger or temper, over petty arguments he starts to hit me and push me and stuff. I've warned him multiple times that I will get the law enforcement involved but his behavior is still same. Any ideas what i.should do.

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Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 12:26 PM  

Once law enforcement involved kindly forget you and your kids about India

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Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   M.   11/04/2017 01:50 PM  

Is it possible for you both to go to a counseling? Probably not, he might become angry for asking. Be patient, be little more loving and caring and hopefully that will change him. May be look at few albums together which contains lot of happy moments from those times when you loud each other a lot. Above all pray well, sometimes it does wonders...If none of these work, involve parents/relatives/trusted friends...then only involve law enforcement..my opinion...

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Re: Domestic violence from partner   sri   11/04/2017 03:01 PM  

Only animals indulge in physical abuse as they dont have developed brain.
Is there a reason why turned this way. Did you do any wrong?
Tell his parents and your parents immediately and that ask them to make him go for counseling

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Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 03:26 PM  

put something ion his food

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Re: Domestic violence from partner   E   11/04/2017 03:45 PM  

Travel to India with your kids for sometime.. may be you guys just need a break from each other so that you can focus on yourselves and kids will also enjoy some time with their grand parents..

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Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 04:47 PM  

I haven't done anything to him. The reality is that we are just exhausted of each other and need a break from one another. But I'm not allowed to go anywhere without him. I know he cares and loves me alot but how can a person be so angry to end up.using physical abuse to win a argument? I've talked to him when everything cooled down but he thinks hitting will make him.ppwerful and solve problem

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Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 05:50 PM  

Zulab helps

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Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   nosex   11/04/2017 06:39 PM  

one thing that always works - withhold sex from him. don't give him access until he stops the abuse.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 10:15 PM  

it's a two edged sword though.. could go either ways. But yes, worth a try.. might work.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 10:28 PM  

Ha ha noses what if he rapes here!!

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Re: Domestic violence from partner   Help yourself   11/04/2017 10:37 PM  

You need to make a Stand for yourself. If a person loves and respects you the last thing they want is to hurt you. Here is a resource that may help you navigate through such difficult times. http://www.sneha.org

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Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi   11/04/2017 10:54 PM  

Thank you guys no he cannot rape me. I've withheld sex from him for few weeks. Lol.

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Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Desi2   11/05/2017 08:38 AM  

We both are on same page

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Concerned    11/05/2017 04:44 PM  

What are you doing in regards it?

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Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Aged   11/05/2017 04:55 PM  

the first and foremost error a woman does is leverage her sex.. with holding sex will only increase his ego and anger... which will further crack the relation or make him realize that he needs to cheat... in fact it might even fuel the situation here... so just keep the issues isolated and dont mixup smaller issues into one big pile..!!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   agree   11/05/2017 05:03 PM  

All gurujis look peaceful and calm because they get lot of sex from their devotees.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Domestic violence from partner   Care    11/05/2017 10:26 PM  

It is very common and sad that even bestbof the people behave their worst when they have anger management issues. It’s not that they want to hurt or treat you bad but just that they have so much emotional/mental issues that they can’t help themselves. I think it better to talk to them. Talk to them when they are in mood to listen to you. Would be difficult if you start giving tit-for-tat attitude. It can be difficult but give extra love and care so that they are bound to return the same. And express yourself gently. And wish you all the strength to fight this. Make him realize that your kids suffer the most.

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