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Wedding night    Mr. A   10/25/2017 04:35 PM  

I am going to get married soon. I am as much nervous as i am excited, especially about the suhaag raat. What exactly happens at suhaag raat. Unfortunately i dont have any elder brothers or sisters who i can ask this question. Does everyone have sex at suhaag raat? When i asked my cousin, he told me he didn't have sex until their honeymoon, they just talked on suhaag raat. please tell me what happens at suhaag raat?

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Re: Wedding night    Another Troll?    10/25/2017 04:48 PM  

kahan kahan se aa jaate hain ye chutiye

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Re: Wedding night    suhaagi   10/25/2017 05:05 PM  

I don't know if this is a serious post or someone just having some fun. But I am going to assume this is someone seriously asking a question and reply accordingly, just because I have time on my hand. So here goes.. the pressure on newly weds of this suhaag raat is intense, because of all we have heard and seen in movies etc. But if you are a virgin, never had sex before, and/or both of you don't know each other well, then having sex / especially intercourse on the first day is highly unlikely. My advice to you is, don;t feel nervous. This is the first of many such nights, so talk and get to know each other and see where it goes. Don;t have expectations of sex - if it happens it happens, if not you have many many more nights to come .. Hope that helps. And do remember to keep some protection handy--just in case you do get lucky !

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Re: Re: Wedding night    Mr.    10/25/2017 05:14 PM  

What nonsense question Is this...? Are you kid ..seriously

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Re: Wedding night    Desi   10/26/2017 06:43 AM  

So u r nervous abt your performance and excited abt doing it!!!

U are getting married and wrote the word sex too so u r just acting to be innocent but nevertheless, sex is not the only way to express love.

If u and your partner are already madly in love (happens while talking and knowing each othr on phone aftr engmnt), u dont hv to think much but if u guys are still to feel that for each other then dont do it for the sake of doing it.

When u love someone truly, u want to feel them and it just happens. There are no steps to follow or rules to it. And yes, wedding night is not the only night in your life to do it, anyhow you are going to do it for the rest of your life so u can make this one memorable in a different way too. Plan beautiful surprises to make her feel loved and special. U dont hv to tell the world wht u did but wht u do, will definetely make your place in her heart!!!

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Re: Re: Wedding night    my 3 cents   10/26/2017 09:38 AM  

Its very simple, you are not ready yet. put off the marriage and save the girl!!

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Re: Wedding night    no sex   10/26/2017 09:38 AM  

You don't need sex, Not worth for you

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Re: Wedding night    sexologist   10/26/2017 10:15 AM  

Its not easy the first time so dont worry.

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Re: Wedding night    desi   10/26/2017 11:40 AM  

Kaha se aate hain ye log?

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Re: Re: Wedding night    Mr. A   10/26/2017 12:22 PM  

Everybody who is being rude for no reason, whats your problem. I am just asking a question that i cant ask my parents or relatives, since these issues are stigmatized in our culture. Somebody has to address this, right? How will we get to know about it if no one is going to tell us. If you cant help, dont comment. Thanks

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Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    my 3 cents   10/26/2017 01:08 PM  

Dude, there is no rule as what you should do. Do what ever with mutual consent. If she is not ready, don't have sex. You have years ahead of you.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    Desi   10/26/2017 04:12 PM  

I like your comments on most of the posts - 3 cents

U seem to be nice guy... keep it up boy

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    my 3 cents   10/26/2017 04:40 PM  

Oh boy, didn't expect compliments on an anonymous forum. People usually bully on anon forums and this is a surprise. Well, thank you.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    Desi   10/26/2017 09:20 PM  

U r welcome!!!

Im a girl, not boy!!!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    my 3 cents   10/26/2017 09:31 PM  

if you don't mind, can we be friends?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    Desi   10/27/2017 02:51 PM  

Give me sometime to check if it was you or 2cents or 1cent who bullied somehwere earlier. All these cents are you only??

Something like south north clash and abusing I could recall...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wedding night    my 3 cents   11/01/2017 11:12 AM  

I did not post this "if you don't mind, can we be friends? ". Also, this is anonymous forum, anyone can use any name. I used "my 3 cents" so that I can identify my posts but I see a couple other using it, one was looking for job, and this other one is looking for a friend.

P.S: I know I don't have any exclusive rights but its not just me anymore.

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