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need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   k   09/20/2017 08:41 AM  

Hello, i am so depressed right now, need your advice.

Me and my fiance got engaged a month ago. Everything was perfect before engagement, but as soon as we got engaged, he started putting bans on me. He controls all my life now, like I can't go out with male friends, I can't do this, I can't do that. In short, I can't do anything without telling him. When I tried to talk to him about this matter, he said he is not going to be one of those husbands who give their wives a lot of chooth (freedom). And that he has seen a lot of men who give their wives chooth, their wives cheat on them. I am so depressed because of his behavior and don't know what I should be doing. Any advice? Anyone ever been in the similar situation?


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Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   shilpa   09/20/2017 09:30 AM  

Better leave him . Its an abusive relationship.
Its okay to be jealous but he cant be your owner like slave.

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Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   moveon   09/20/2017 09:33 AM  

I agree, you are still early in the relationship and if this is the way he wants to be, just leave him and move on.

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Re: Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   k   09/20/2017 10:21 AM  

Don't you think this is a very extreme step. We were together for 3 years, and most of all I still love him very much. I just don't like this sudden change in behavior. Should I talk to his parents or is there any other way to change his behavior?

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Re: Re: Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   Desi   09/20/2017 12:31 PM  

U r lucky to know his true colors even before marriage. Dont b an emotional fool as no guarantee from any family member can change anyone's behaviour.

Trust me, moving out will be difficult now but will make rest of your life easy.

I once got the same opportunity to walk out of engagement but like u, i decided to give chance to our relationship and went ahead with marriage. Till today i cant change his mentality (he is not suspicious at all but like his family, still holds ego of groom side)

Point is- values remain all life be it good or bad. If u know its not going to work later, move on...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   Desi best suck advise kuty ki aulad   09/20/2017 08:52 PM  

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   An   09/21/2017 03:19 AM  

Troll thread

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   Haritha   09/21/2017 08:29 AM  

Better to drop now itself. My situation is different arrange marriage but I felt like love marriage because I felt love with him once got married to my husband. Even after loving so much he supports mostly his family members as there family d’nt like me at all.
Now he brought camera to record me when there parents came here.
It hurts a lot .

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Re: Re: Re: need advice... Fiance doesn't give me chooth   sk   09/21/2017 09:20 AM  

Of all the animals, human beings invented marriages. It was done for only thing to control woman and raise child for man. I am a man but still this is the truth. So the laws were created to favor women during divorce.

Its better to leave him and find someone who treates women as individual than own property. It will be rare.

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