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Divorce and alimony    B    06/30/2017 07:05 AM  

Is there any legal advisors here ? For my divorce case

We have filed a divorce On mutual consent
And I am under EAD and non working wife currently

What would be my status if I get divorced ?
I am planning to keep my daughter with me since I am not working & my husband is a software engineer, am I eligible for any alimony ?

He doesn't own any properties & his salary is 1lac dollars p.a

Plz help me so that I can decide wisely

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Re: Divorce and alimony    P   06/30/2017 07:48 AM  

How you will feed your kids & your self if you are not earning?


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Re: Divorce and alimony    sk   06/30/2017 08:30 AM  

Call this law firm. You may have to pay some fees but they will guide you correctly

murthydotcom.wpengine.com/contact-us/


or CT government free legal advice (who may not know about h4 ead laws)

https://slsct.org/get-help

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Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Poor husband   06/30/2017 08:54 AM  

Hence she asked for Alimony!! Unfortunately, Alimony is fine for females, but Dowry [when some people take] is not fine!! I pity the males who have to undergo this Divorce drama. US or India, divorce laws are always in favor of females.

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Re: Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Desi   06/30/2017 09:49 AM  

They should be otherwise how is she gong to support herself.

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Re: Divorce and alimony    Desi   06/30/2017 10:42 AM  

If u are on EAD, u can work. Look for a job first and get independent.

I dont know anything about your status or alimony legally but how old is your daughter? Kids need their father too and esp if she is a toddler who recognizes her father, how will she live without him?

Whatever may be the reason for divorce, i would say dont stay with him for money only (u asked wisely) rather if u can give each other a second chance or for your daughter,u can think to save your marriage.

It takes a second to break but years to make and once break, it wont be easy to make...

Since i dont know the reason for this decision, i cant say much about it.

Goodluck!!!

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Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Kumar   06/30/2017 11:05 AM  

Good advice. You may not like your husband, but child is related to her father and close to him, just like you enjoyed your relationship with your father.

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Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Desi2   06/30/2017 11:06 AM  

Stay awake, bake a cake for God's sake!

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Re: Divorce and alimony    W   06/30/2017 12:25 PM  

U seems to be under dependent visa status. Will that go away after divorce nd hav to go back to ur parent country



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Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Friend   06/30/2017 04:41 PM  

Rethink about getting divorced. Don't do that for your child's sake. Don't look for money. Look for life. Try to adjust and make your life happy

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Re: Divorce and alimony    Desi   06/30/2017 11:32 PM  

If u are on EAD, u can work. Look for a job first and get independent.

I dont know anything about your status or alimony legally but how old is your daughter? Kids need their father too and esp if she is a toddler who recognizes her father, how will she live without him?

Whatever may be the reason for divorce, i would say dont stay with him for money only (u asked wisely) rather if u can give each other a second chance or for your daughter,u can think to save your marriage.

It takes a second to break but years to make and once break, it wont be easy to make...

Since i dont know the reason for this decision, i cant say much about it.

Goodluck!!!

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Re: Divorce and alimony    abc   07/01/2017 01:15 PM  

I do not have any legal advice for you.
But as far as I know, you are on H4 visa with EAD. After divorce your dependent status will be gone and hence you will have to go back to your own country. Even if you get to work here, it will be only for few months, as after divorce your legal status in this country will not be maintained.
For a child, both parents are equally important.
I will request you to reconsider your decision and think wisely.
You can give your marriage a second chance.

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Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Ct women   07/01/2017 10:22 PM  

I am a divorce women and I exactly did what you did ...but trust me I have faced lot of issues with my only child staying in usa and all the men are behind me for that once 'chance' you know matter of fact every one knows what I mean ...better if you think and roll back if possible...instead of this 100 male dogs who are waiting to knock for single women please stay with that one dog and sometimes time kills problems you never know

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Re: Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    desi men   07/03/2017 08:29 AM  

hy divorce women I am single divorce men ready to mingle, let me know I am that single dog whom you are ok to settle

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Re: Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Another CT Women   07/05/2017 08:50 AM  

Very well said - CT Women. This is 100% True.
First make your self self-sufficient enough to take care of your child and then think to step out.

I can completely understand that sometimes it is very difficult to stay in a situation, but before you step out make sure your are not entering into another situation.

If there is a physical abuse - report the authorities - 911
He can also loose his job. Don't just leave him the easy way out. After u he can ruin someone else life.

Take care and always remember to report the authorities if necessary.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Another CT Women   07/05/2017 08:54 AM  

Shame on U Desi man.

Don't U have a divorced sister at your home to mingle. Mingle with her U both will be happy and no one will ever know... Basterd


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    You are Feminazi   07/05/2017 09:48 AM  

(at) Another CT Women: Requester said that they have applied for divorce with mutual consent. That means, there wouldn't have been any physical abuse. Don't plant thoughts unnecessarily in her mind to file complaint against her husband and ruin his life.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Divorce and alimony    Desi   07/05/2017 12:05 PM  

India Or USA, everybody blaming the Husbands. First point, without knowing what happened or what is happening never and ever, blame Husband Or Wife. Cos we don't know. Who knows the problem or the mistake will on both sides. First try to spend some time with each other and share your problems. Trust me sometimes, loneliness is the best philosopher. So my request, live for your daughter. Breaking is easy... so better Think before you Ink. This i my opinion. I have no idea about your problem. But first think onething, only your husband added u as dependent and brought you here. If you got divorced, you have to go back your country. If you go there what you will do for your survival. Only if you can survive, you can feed your daughter. Think... Think...

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