Dear Helpless wife,
Do a favor for yourself and kids and try to focus on your looks and growth and travel with your husband thoughts!!
Looks if you are average you will be average, but try to get fresh look always like his office colleagues wont cost anything!!
Growth if you are on h4 and you cant do anything, but read daily magazines/QUORA after he left and know whats happening in the world and discuss the intresting things with your husband after he comes home.
Ask what your husband dreams, if he want to go to strip club let him allow and ask him how was the lap dance experience.
he want to hang with friends let him hang but request him dont come in night driving while dunk and drive will throw out of usa or if you can drive and pickhim up its great as him to go early so you can pick early.
The above 2 things happens without your concern, even you object also happens without your knowledge then let it happen with your concert and you can use it later.
Just you think urself as his best male friend, and when you people go out put some nice comments about beautiful girl where your husband stares and makes fun of it.
You might feel bad all this things but this all are the qualities what I observed in great social couples who enjoy alot!!
But dont ever say..I mean 100% dont ever praise any real man whom you see even though you felt dont express tell your husband how he can look better, also keep tell your husband how his mother cooks better than you, tell his father is the best father mother is the best mother, try to talk with her infront of your father
Once you are in shoes try to understand perfectly when he behaves what try to be like that, then he actually listen to you and you never have fights.
One more thing scold your relatives infront of your husband he will be more than happy to listen and support you, even though your husband relatives are chutiyas and he likes him, tell they are the best realtives in the world and priase him.
last but not least keep praising infront of your kid how great his father was!!
Bless you Indian Wife!!
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