hello (Peace):
I am deeply sadden by your situation, Marriage is joke it involved lots of commitments, compromises to each other....it gives meaning to live: how come the guy behave you this way? then why did he marry you:
anyway now you need to sit with him and discuss with him your do and don'ts see if he is mentally ok, if not then need to find solution by taking this issue to your parents and solve it. if required do take help from professional counselling.
If love isn't functioning like the sun, it's just a pen light.
love is important in marriage? its about commitment and hard work, accommodating to another's needs, health issues and emotionality. No one stays the same, and marriages are essentially an emotionally gymnasium that you either work at and get bulging wisdom muscles, or you're just a visitor waiting for your membership to expire.
he should come to compromise and know where he is the boss at work and you are the boss at home. These boundaries work for everyone.
There are more important things to worry about on a daily basis. he should know someone who's got my back when sickness, disability or poverty strike.
love is the secret sauce, but commitment, loyalty and discipline are far more important for becoming a cordon bleu chef in love's kitchen.
if the bond of love among the couples is strong enough then it will give the courage to love each other. Until love is real, everything else is just shadows.
Good luck |
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